Change happens together
You need someone who can appreciate that there is no one stop shop to any one problem. You are 1 in 8 billion and that what you need is as unique as you are. If there is a problem in the universe that means there is also a solution. When you can become unconditionally honest with yourself you can start to find what was hiding in plane sight all along. When you can better understand the root of your problems you can begin to know what the solution is and you can start your healing journey.